More on what I was talking about before:

[butterfly]

I didn't cover the full extent of her words in my earlier post. She actually said that unless I 'show more maturity', which I'm guessing means taking my site down, that though she isn't 'firing' me, she is going to stop asking me to work for her as soon as she finds someone else.

Honestly, I don't mind. She pays below min wage and I've only put up with it because she was a good sport about my horrible unreliability last year, when I was into massive cutting and general clinical depression. But I'm over that. Because I am more responsible now. Which she agreed with until this happened. So. She has her (conservative Republican) opinions and I have mine.

She has no clue how much I've bitten my tongue with her in the past.

I do think that I'm going to make it known that I'm honestly not interested in joining DAR. Because I'm not going to get into that stuff again. I don't enjoy the meetings. I don't particularly enjoy the people. I do enjoy looking into genology, a bit, but I can do that without being in DAR.

One good thing: this has inspired me to put up a warning page, which I probably should have done months ago. Makes everything nice and clear for everyone.

Comments

[therisingmoon.livejournal.com]

[big hugs]

Hopefully, everything will work out well for you.

If you need to talk, I'm here. :)

[butterfly.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

Thank you.

I'm actually taking it better than I would have anticipated.

But thanks. And I'll let you know if I need to talk.

{{hugs}}

[dine.livejournal.com]

She is obviously confused about what maturity is - it isn't demanding that everyone else think and behave you do. If you wanted to be petty, and could afford it, you could always just stop working for her now - let her scramble to find someone else.

I admire your attitude about this, it's definitely *mature* and I congratulate you on handling things so well. The warnings page is a good idea, but even without it, folks can move on if they don't like your website.

Re: {{hugs}}

[butterfly.livejournal.com]

That's a good point about the job thing. I'm actually kinda impressed with myself because I didn't even think about doing that.

Thanks.

*hugs*

[kita0610.livejournal.com]

Wow. Talk about narrow minded bigoted discrimination.

Did I miss something or isn't this the 21st century??

[butterfly.livejournal.com]

I know. It's so weird, especially coming from someone that I thought I knew.

[silviakundera.livejournal.com]

Below minimum wage?! Dude, go to a temp agency! You can get at LEAST $10/hour doing that stuff.

[butterfly.livejournal.com]

I should. In fact, I will. I just... felt obligated to help her. Not anymore, though.

But yeah, even my mom was starting to go, "Is it worth working there at all?" So.