We're just good friends...
Dec. 17th, 2002 06:55 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
butterflyOccasionally, you read something about how reading implicit sex into men's friendships isn't a good thing because just because guys are close does not mean that they are fucking. (and we don't want to assume that it does)
To them, I say that I do the same to women and to men and women together. What I do with Buffy/Xander is not far off from what I plan to do with Fraser/Kowalski. In fact, there might be more canon evidence for F/K. "Do you think I'm attractive?" The whole identity crisis Ray faces with Ray's return and the fact that Fraser is what he stresses over. They've both had mouth-to-mouth life saving gestures but at least F/K's took place with both parties conscious and fully alive.
Anyway, that would be my place in the whole issue of possibly over-eroticizing (is that a word?) homo-social relationships: I do the same to hetero-social relationships.
To them, I say that I do the same to women and to men and women together. What I do with Buffy/Xander is not far off from what I plan to do with Fraser/Kowalski. In fact, there might be more canon evidence for F/K. "Do you think I'm attractive?" The whole identity crisis Ray faces with Ray's return and the fact that Fraser is what he stresses over. They've both had mouth-to-mouth life saving gestures but at least F/K's took place with both parties conscious and fully alive.
Anyway, that would be my place in the whole issue of possibly over-eroticizing (is that a word?) homo-social relationships: I do the same to hetero-social relationships.