Yeah, the co-dependent thing is what bugs me about them. And while I can kinda see the other point of view... John went crazy without Aeryn there. Literally went nuts. And that bothers me on so many levels, most of which aren't even connected to my brain. It just feels like they lost who they were as people. Their relationship just... squicks me.
See, and I *can* argue all this but again, essentially it seems to come down to where you start looking at something from? And from there all the stuff falls into different places for you. Or something. I did a lot of thinking about this because I'm very very insecure in my opinions so if I respect someone else's opinions (as I do yours) and they disagree with me I immediately question my own opinion but I'm getting better about it.
I do write things down, sometimes, if I remember to. A lot of my thoughts usually come right before I go to sleep, I conduct long internal monologues that I only half remember in the morning.
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regna
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Date: 2005-02-03 03:15 pm (UTC)Hee, okay. *is*
Yeah, the co-dependent thing is what bugs me about them. And while I can kinda see the other point of view... John went crazy without Aeryn there. Literally went nuts. And that bothers me on so many levels, most of which aren't even connected to my brain. It just feels like they lost who they were as people. Their relationship just... squicks me.
See, and I *can* argue all this but again, essentially it seems to come down to where you start looking at something from? And from there all the stuff falls into different places for you. Or something. I did a lot of thinking about this because I'm very very insecure in my opinions so if I respect someone else's opinions (as I do yours) and they disagree with me I immediately question my own opinion but I'm getting better about it.
I do write things down, sometimes, if I remember to. A lot of my thoughts usually come right before I go to sleep, I conduct long internal monologues that I only half remember in the morning.