I mean, this should come as a surprise to absolutely no one, but...
man, I love me some Season Six
Buffy.
Just rewatched
Once More, With Feeling and it's reminding me of all of the things that I adore about Season Six. Buffy. And Xander. And did you see that adorable parental moment about Dawn? It should be noted that Giles is not part of the "No, it's not." directed at Dawn. It's just Buffy and Xander. They're both so effortlessly in sync when it comes to Dawn (excepting the Big Summers Exception that is Spike).
But yeah, Season Six is the season that made me go, "Oh, Buffy is
me." Heh, which is probably why I took the hate personally at the time. People were dissing her and I was identifying more strongly than ever, so it totally felt like a personal diss.
And this is definitely the season of everyone's life going ka-boom. But it isn't relentlessly sad. There are some hilarious moments (and
Doublemeat Palace is even more amusing to me now that I'm working fast food.). But yeah, the whole point of the season is that Buffy is depressed. There's going to be a theme of the not-cheerful because of this.
I mean, are there episodes that could have been better written? Well, yeah, but that's true in every season. And are there plotlines that make people go 'out of character'? Of course. This is an evolving show. People change. First Season Willow isn't going to act the same way as Fifth Season Willow.
Ah, but there's growing up and then there's growing up to be boring and/or unlikable people, which is the biggest complaint that I've heard about the latter season Scoobs.
What seems to make someone likable is if they're identifiable. Lots of people adored early seasons Willow because they 'got' her. If you understand where someone is coming from, then you're going to be willing to cut them a little more slack. In general.
I loved the early seasons of Buffy but I can't identify with them like I can the later ones. And that is, in part,
because Buffy loses that carefree air. She gets jaded. She doesn't quip as much, and when she does, it has a different feel to it.
Now, if Buffy hadn't died, then I probably would have agreed with how the drabness of S6 was unfitting, but... she felt whole and then she had to go feel human again.
"What is Hell but the total absence of hope? The substance, the tactile proof of despair." (Ken,
Anne, S3
Buffy)
Hell is the absence. We can create our own Hells on Earth, and we can create our own Heavens.
Hope - "To wish for something with expectation of its fulfillment." (dictionary.com)
And with that, let's segue to
Angel:
( spoilers up to 'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco' )