If you have the LJ client, you can go to Edit Friends.
It shows a red arrow for someone who's linking you, and you're not linking them... and then a blue one for people who you have as Friends, and they don't have you. I have several blues, but I know who they are... so I notice when that changes.
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It shows a red arrow for someone who's linking you, and you're not linking them... and then a blue one for people who you have as Friends, and they don't have you. I have several blues, but I know who they are... so I notice when that changes.