The problem is not that we disagree. The problem is not even that you're making an opinion based on something you can't begin to understand the repercussions of, while I know exactly how you feel. My problems is that you knew what happened to me and you didn't and still don't as far as I can see understand how badly what you said here hurts me. I'm exerting the only power I have in a completely powerless situation by choosing to no longer read this because of the amount of pain it has caused me. I will not see a rape icon everytime I look at my friends page, and I hope to never read something from a friend that hurts me as much as this did.