Oh god, hon, that is just not right. My mom will do that sometimes, say things and she thinks they're little or that i'll forget because she's just tired but what i don't think she understands is that when a parent says something like that to you, it's imprinted in your brain and it just echoes there. I'm so sorry honey. You are amazing, AMAZING, and nothing but an absolute asset to this community and a joy to read about.

Anastasia