Well, you could do what the show does. They tend to use pet names, terms of affection. Makes sense, really, 'cause all the vamps that we've seen get made are turned either to be a lover or to be Slayer fodder. As far as we've seen, while there's some Sire looking up done, there isn't any 'teaching the young one' stuff going on. They don't make children, they make lovers or drones.