We're talking about completely different things, aren't we? The whole point is, RTD insists that the Rose-ship is More Special; some people agree with him; some people are upset that any number of other ships get short-changed because of that apparent specialness. That's all I was trying to say, and I think it's a reasonable thing to say. I don't see what other reaction is possible, for anyone who ships Doctor/anyone-other-than-Rose.

You also have to realize that your views aren't exactly shipper standard - most Doctor/Rose fics you see out there really do insist that the Doctor thought Rose was More Special Than Everyone, while I've never seen a Doctor/Romana fic proclaim that the Doctor can Never Love Again after "Warrior's Gate". So it's rather a given that people, at least those who arrived via who_daily, come here with an understandable bias.